”Great in the Sack”: When Misogyny Leads to Mayhem
Don’t let the name of the podcast fool you...it’s a passive-aggressive poke at the way women seem to be viewed by society: expendable objects to be utilized and quite literally ended, if a perpetrator so chooses. That’s the message that I get from the lack of action over the entire world, & within our societies to protect women and girls. But it’s not just women and girls...it’s also marginalized groups & those deemed less. And as you’ll come to see, this growing problem is a symptom of misogyny, and ultimately, patriarchy. After all, patriarchy has many faces. If you’re anything like me, then you, too, feel it’s important to witness the stories where patriarchal values have contributed...or downright caused destruction or even death. To be able to identify patterns of misogyny in our own lives is empowering and can also make us feel more prepared...and here’s the thing, as most of you know: the patriarchy hurts us all. We will be discussing crimes that include honor killings, intimate partner violence, war crimes, anti-abortion violence..all things caused by patriarchal societies & misogyny, throught history and up to the present day. My hopes are to educate everyone on what the patterns of misogyny look like in each case, because history has a way of repeating itself. I’m neurodivergent af and am doing this podcast alone. Sometimes episodes are late, but I’m doing my best to get them out every other week!
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Sunday Feb 16, 2025
Sunday Feb 16, 2025
Born into a world where daughters are seen as burdens and honor is worth more than a girl's life, Nina Aouilk grew up trapped—first by her family's expectations of servitude, then by forces far more sinister. From surviving trafficking as a child, to being forced into marriage, and ultimately escaping what her culture referred to as an honor killing, Nina's story is one of resilience in the face of unspeakable cruelty. But she refuses to be a victim.
In this episode, we unravel the brutal reality of so-called "honor-based" violence, exposing it for what it truly is: a weapon of control, masked as tradition. Through Nina’s journey—from her childhood dreams of freedom to her fight for justice—we confront the uncomfortable truths behind cultural silence, generational trauma, and the battle to break the cycle.
Nina Aouilk is skilled in her ability to coach people, a skill she developed as a result of her very difficult upbringing. She coaches MMArtists, and boxers, and different folks alike. She is a TED Talks speaker, as well as an inspirational speaker.
Nina's website: https://endhonourkillings.org/
Nina's IG: www.instagram.com/@londonslifecoach
https://www.britannica.com/topic/Sikhism
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_3_64xDqKx0&t=16s
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SnSmg0f_B4k
Harbinger, Jordan, https://www.jordanharbinger.com/nina-aouilk-ending-forced-marriage-and-honor-killings-part-one/, (and part 2)
https://www.so-rummet.se/kategorier/religion/andra-asiatiska-religioner/sikhism
Wikipedia, https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Rapunzel#/media/File:Stamps_of_Germany_(DDR)_1978,_MiNr_2383.jpg
Sunday Feb 02, 2025
Sunday Feb 02, 2025
At just 15 years old, Holly Newton had her whole life ahead of her—until Logan MacPhail decided she wouldn’t. In this episode of Great in the Sack: When Misogyny Leads to Mayhem, we unravel the brutal reality of intimate partner violence among teenagers. Logan wasn’t a stranger, a lurking danger in the shadows. He was Holly’s ex-boyfriend, a boy she once trusted—until control turned to obsession, and obsession turned deadly.
Through the chilling timeline of Holly’s final day, we examine the red flags that were ignored, the systems that failed to intervene, and the terrifying truth about how young IPV escalates into violence. How did a teenage relationship turn into fatal possessiveness? And why do we still struggle to take coercive control seriously until it’s too late?
This isn’t just Holly’s story. It’s a warning.
Trigger warning: This episode discusses stalking, coercion, and graphic violence. Listener discretion is advised.
Thursday Jan 16, 2025
Thursday Jan 16, 2025
×Content warning×: Episode contains discussions about war crimes, SA, torture, crimes against children, and addiction. Be mindful when, and how you listen.
How good are you with history? Yeah? That good? Then you've heard about this case? Maybe? Well, not me. TBH, I felt shocked that something of this magnitude happened, and I was oblivious! But now. Now, I know...and I must tell you, because the more stories and cases that we know revolving around misogyny, and misogynistic belief systems, the better equipped we are to FIGHT IT!
There are quite literally 3 wars..no wait...4 wars in this episode. This incident and the incedents surrounding it are sometimes referred to the forgotten Hollocaust. Women were tricked, and sometimes even abducted and brought to these hellish concentration-camp settings where the very worst things that can happen to a woman...happens. I am Nicole Davenport, and this is "Great in the Sack: when misogyny leads to mayhem".. Stay informed as we discuss different cases involving the hatred of "not all men" against women...so we can try to better understand our situation as women, and supporters of women in the present day. See you in the sack! Sources: Chaing, Iris (1997), "The Rape of Nanking: The Forgotten Holocaust of World War II", Basic Books, retrieved 2025-01-13. Asian Women's Fund, The lives of the comfort women, https://search.app/5WdJfkV5dNturR2X7 The Brutal History of Japan’s ‘Comfort Women’ | HISTORY https://search.app/FNN9u8q554d7Eobq7
Wednesday Jan 01, 2025
Wednesday Jan 01, 2025
Join host Nicole Davenport in "Great in the Sack" as we delve into the heartbreaking story of Josseli Barnica, a victim of Texas Senate Bill 8's stringent abortion laws. This episode explores the life, struggles, and untimely death of Josseli, highlighting the harrowing impact of political maneuvers prioritizing religious beliefs over women's health. Hear the engaging narrative of Josseli's dreams, journey, and the systemic failures that led to her preventable tragedy. Together, we uncover how these misogynistic policies affect vulnerable women, exposing the need for urgent reform in reproductive rights.
Sources:
Surana, Kvitha & Jaramillo, Cassandra (2024), A Woman Died After Being Told It Would Be a “Crime” to Intervene in Her Miscarriage at a Texas Hospital,
https://abcnews.go.com/US/woman-dies-after-abortion-care-miscarriage-delayed-40/story?id=115327460, retrieved 2025-01-02.
Saturday Dec 28, 2024
Saturday Dec 28, 2024
Welcome to "Great in the Sack: When Misogyny Leads to Mayhem,” a thought-provoking podcast that challenges the societal norms surrounding misogyny and its devastating effects on women's lives. Join host Nicole Davenport as she delves into real-life cases where misogyny isn't just present; it's the driving force that leads to tragedy.In each episode, we explore the stories of women who deserved better, the laws that failed them, and the system that enabled their injustice. Through thorough investigation, we reveal the culture of control and systemic inequality that create a climate for chaos.Together, we aim to not only illuminate these issues but also discuss tangible ways to enhance safety and equality for women worldwide. Join us in this critical conversation, because violence against women is not just a women's issue—it's a human rights issue.